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  • Do What Sucks

    Do What Sucks

    By concentrating on areas where you struggle, you can make significant progress compared to small improvements in areas where you excel.

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  • Extreme Vulnerability

    Extreme Vulnerability

    It may seem counterintuitive, but being vulnerable is crucial for building intimacy and feeling secure in your relationship.

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  • Nothing That Supports

    Nothing That Supports

    …that nothing that supports something can be more important than the thing it is supporting…

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  • The Two Essential Aspects Your Partner Needs

    When considering a potential partner, it’s important to evaluate both their likability and capability.

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  • On Cars & People

    On Cars & People

    Have you ever owned a used car that didn’t quite meet your expectations? Perhaps it had stains, a strange odor, or noticeable dents and scratches. Every time you got in, you were unsure if it would start smoothly or make loud noises down the street. And when your friend showed off their new luxury car,…

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  • The 10 to 15 Minute Window

    Our relationships serve as our sanctuary and refuge in life. However, it’s unrealistic to keep our outside life separate from our relationships. Furthermore, leading a life without anyone to witness it can be a lonely experience. While discussing our daily experiences with our partner is acceptable, have you ever questioned why we feel the need…

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  • The Problem With Eliminating Anger

    As previously mentioned, anger can be a result of unexpressed emotions. However, there are various aspects to this emotion. Anger can trigger the flight or fight response, which causes movement. This is why abusers often try to take away your right to be angry by criticizing you when you express it, causing you to doubt…

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  • Redefining Failure

    Redefining Failure

    It is crucial to acknowledge areas where improvement is needed, rather than solely focusing on one’s strengths. Failure serves as a valuable tool in identifying these areas. When we experience failure, it presents an opportunity for reflection, growth, and progress. Avoiding stepping out of our comfort zone and only sticking to what we’re already good…

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  • A Safe Place (Anxiety/Depression)

    Sometimes, anxiety and depression can be the result of being in a safe environment and having enough time to ponder. For example, when you get into a car accident, you might feel primal anxiety, which is the kind that triggers the fight, flight, or freeze response. This type is usually a result of something that…

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  • Why use Labels in Relationships?

    Have you ever experienced confusion or difficulty in a relationship due to a lack of clear labels? It’s not uncommon for friends who start a romantic relationship without discussing the change in title to end up feeling hurt, confused, or unsure of what’s appropriate. However, a title shouldn’t be seen as a burden or restriction.…

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